by: Amanda Cotterill
Shopping for erotic lingerie is something many women do. Most women have different reasons for shopping for it, of course. Some like the pleasure and tantalizing sense of sexuality it can bring, others want to spice up their relationships, and others simply like how erotic lingerie feels on the skin. Purchasing erotic lingerie is sadly something most women do alone, however, as few women actually take their partners with them on this most sensual of retail journeys.
Whether going to a store or looking at lingerie online, shopping for erotic lingerie as a couple adds excitement long before you wear the garment in the bedroom. Think of all the fun you two could have picking out intimate apparel together. As a couple, you'll strengthen your bond as you discover each other's fantasies and bring your relationship to a whole new level.
If you've never gone shopping together in an erotic lingerie store, your partner might be awkward at first. The only rule is to have an open mind. Share with each other what styles you like or don't like. If your mate seems attracted to an outfit you never thought you'd picture yourself in, try it on anyway. Eventually, you'll reach a middle ground between the erotic lingerie you like, what he likes - and you might surprise yourself in the process.
Both of you must remember that should one of you strongly dislike an item, you should be able to respect your partner's preferences and let it go gracefully. The more you talk, the more you'll both unearth fantasies you may have been hesitant to voice before. Once you break the ice and get the conversation flowing, the rest is easy.
If you're afraid to take the plunge and go to a store in person, start your erotic shopping experience online. Bring the laptop into bed and start surfing. Casually ask him his opinion; he'll get interested quickly enough.
The brain is the most important sex organ in the human body. Just the thought of exotic lingerie is sure to start both your pulses racing. Much of the sexual experience is about the anticipation leading up to the big event. A day of shopping or an evening of surfing online is enough to fill your heads with all sorts of ideas.
Experience the sensual bliss of sharing erotic lingerie with your partner and make a date out of shopping for sexy stuff. With the great memories and arousing delights you're sure to encounter along the way, you won't be able to wait to get home to try on your new erotic lingerie.
